As seen on CNN! (And on 50 other TV Shows!)

Victimized BY HIM - AGAIN?

Still think he’ll change or he just needs someone to understand him and love him? How many years do you want to keep doing this dance of waiting and getting only more pain?

~ For all women who are tired of the cycle of hoping and seeing no change~

Famous Therapist Reveals to Women How

 to Spot and also How To Break Free of

 Abusive, Toxic, Cheating, and Unhealthy

 Relationships and NEVER Choose Them

 Again!

(Click below to hear psychotherapist & author Sandra L. Brown discuss dangerous and pathological relationships)

 

Want To Deal With Abusive, Dangerous

 Relationships, OR Domestic Violence

 Once And For ALL?

Want SOLID INSIGHTFUL advice about YOUR dangerous relationship? Sandra L. Brown, M.A. a renowned psychotherapist and expert helps women in abusive, dangerous, at-risk and/or pathological relationships gain not only insight into the 'how & why' of their situation but learn to spot the signs earlier AND safely flee the one they're in!

She has been featured on over 50 television shows including:

* CNN: Anderson Cooper 360 Degrees

* Life & Style Show

* Fox News in the Morning

* ABC 7 News Morning Show

* CBS 2 This Morning

* And dozens of others

The sad issue is, our world in general is becoming more unsafe and more violent. The evidence of this is seen through incidents such as the Virginia Tech shootings, Columbine, and 9/11. These dangers only point to that EVERY PERSON needs to be able to SPOT dangerous behavior. There are ALWAYS signs of dangerous behavior....do you know what they are?   

DANGEROUS RELATIONSHIPS

If you are SICK AND TIRED of living in fear in the relationship you are in or the one you just left and you want to make sure this NEVER EVER happens to you or someone you care about again....then keep reading. We know this will be an eye opener for you. 

Day after day in my counseling practice, I would hear stories just like this…”He swept me off my feet -- he was so charming -- he acted like everything I was looking for. He felt safe — at least in the beginning. But the

relationship changed—and pretty soon he was lying, cheating, hitting me, making everything my fault...

He was always sorry and I stuck around thinking he would change and he wouldn’t—it almost seemed like he couldn’t be any different for some reason….Then I had to stay because I had burned my bridges with my family and friends because I kept staying with him or going back to him and they didn’t want to hear it any more about the domestic violence, or the lying, cheating, drinking---or whatever it was he was doing—I had no where to go.

I stayed to figure him out too—I thought if I could just understand what made him do the acts of domestic violence (and other behaviors too!)  then I could help him, or meet his need, or do something that would make him be happier or better. It was a cycle of hoping, then getting frustrated because he wouldn’t do what he said he would, then hoping again. I lost myself and self esteem in this process. I need to understand why this happened.”

“I want more than anything for women to understand what’s behind a dangerous man.” (Sandra L. Brown, MA Psychotherapist & Author)

DANGEROUS MEN HAVE A LOT TO SAY ABOUT WOMEN LIKE YOU....

Day after day in my counseling practice, I would also hear stories just like this from dangerous men, “I know how to pick the women. I have a built in radar that can hone in on who is ripe for the taking. These women need to wake up – guys like me can look like ANYONE she wants us to be…until we’re in. Then the rules are ours! Let me tell you a few of the ways I get in….”

So, in counseling the women and I would talk about why this happened…or what in her childhood and early adult years helped contribute to her selecting dangerous men who are domestic violence abusers as partners. She would begin to understand how her previous exposure to dangerous men who were domestic violence abusers in childhood or early adulthood helped her to think how he treated her was ‘normal.’ Or she began to see that the head-games he played to keep her confused actually just kept her THERE with him.

BUT she would always believe that ‘he will change’ ‘he said he would stop doing ____’  ‘I want to give him one more chance’ ‘maybe this really IS my fault or if I just did _____ he would stop what he is doing.’ And then she’d leave counseling…. and months later she would come back to counseling and we’d talk about all the other acts of domestic violence or other dangerous behaviors while she was out of counseling .

And then guess what? Yep. She went back to him again. And each time she came back to counseling, she was more and more damaged and as a counselor I kept thinking it was going to take even more time to glue her back together once she really stayed in counseling and the domestic violence and/or dangerous behaviors stopped.

Then something HUGE would happen (he would cheat, drink too much, blame all the problems on her, or hit her, beat her children, not come home for days, threaten to kill her….etc.) and she’d make a fast path to my door—now wanting to know ‘What’s wrong with him? Why is he like this?’ Finally we had something we could really begin with in counseling ….the issue of dangerousness, domestic violence and abuse.

MORE THOUGHTS FROM DANGEROUS MEN....

In my counseling practice the court-ordered dangerous man continues to tell me, “Do YOU know what makes a woman vulnerable? I DO. Any of us do… (**he smirks**) Women ‘NEED’ to believe in their ‘man.’ That helps me a lot. She will think over and over again that I’m gonna do what I tell her I’m gonna do. Hell NO! Look, I know enough about myself that I know I-am-who-I-am. She just doesn’t know it. Good---so what.”

So Kelly comes to my office and says, “I have wasted SO many years waiting on this guy to get it together. Really…a lot of my wasted youth. He really took advantage of my giving nature. I’m such a nurturer. I think these guys look for women like me—those who give and give and always see the best in people. And they like women who are patient and long-suffering. I kept believing every promise he made…he would do this, he would stop doing that….we would finally do this together… It was all lies.

 But I stayed because I didn’t know which thought was ‘real’—the one where he said he would change OR the one where I thought he wouldn’t. "

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Kelly asks, “What makes a man dangerous? Why is he like this? Can he help himself or can he change? Am I wasting my time waiting for him to be different? Will he always be like this? Is it something I did? Or can I do something better that will help him or help us? What can I do?”

I spent year counseling female victims of violence and I understand their patterns of selection and why they attract and are attracted to ‘Bad Boys.’

I also spent years counseling male perpetrators---bad boys, batterers, addicts, unfaithful married men, and even rapists and I understand their patterns of selection and why they attract and are attracted to female victims and care-giving types. Think your guy 'isn't THAT bad!' How do you know? You need to know the signs to know if he's in or not in the book! 

So I told Kelly, ‘what makes a man truly dangerous in domestic violence and other forms of dangerousness are things that actually can’t be treated or cured. What can make a woman safe is to know how to spot those traits early and how to detach and de-tangle if she is already in one.”

(Click below to here one woman's journey out of her dangerous relationship)

The whole reason I wrote ‘How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved’ is because 80% of women DON’T know what they are looking at, what the signs and symptoms of permanently pathological men are, and how to break up safely.

A cluster of women in a support group describe it like this…”You can’t tell by looking or by what they do for a living—you have got to be able to pick up on the early clues. Your radar has to be tuned up. All these guys fly under the radar—that’s how they get in! Mine was a banker…mine was a cop…mine was an auto mechanic…mine was a teacher….mine was a landscaper…mine was an attorney, mine was a waiter…mine was a doctor…mine was a carpenter…mine was a minister…”

In this fact-packed book, 'How to Spot a Dangerous Man' learn ALL of THESE SECRETS~

* Why women pick dangerous men (This is by far, the number one reason women fell prey to predators, batterers, cheaters, even sweet-faced murderers) *  One simple change in your mindset and you'll be to detect 'dangerous men' quickly * Why you'll never stay OR be fooled again * The little-realized fact why women often date 4 or 5 renegades before they make safer choices * 11 facts you SHOULD know about dating permanently disordered and often pathological men (These men are often in the EARLY stages of their dangerous behavior---unless you have this info you won't be able to tell the difference!) * Critically Important--even possibly life saving step to take immediately if you're in a relationship or trying to leave one with a dangerous man * How to determine if you are an 'at-risk' woman

In this ground breaking book ‘How to Spot a Dangerous Man’ Sandra L. Brown, MA also reveals to women what they need to know to break the cycle of picking bad men for relationships. You can’t change what you don’t see and until you understand what ‘dangerous is’ and what he’s like, you can’t stop the types of relationships you choose. Let's face it--if you had all the answers on spotting him, you wouldn't be with him today! There's more to learn.

~ Tired Of Feeling Like a Fool For Keeping Him OR Taking Him Back? Even more tired of him taking advantage of your kind heart? ~

Are you FINALLY ready to learn what is behind the secrets of men who are dangerous and are never going to change? Have you always wondered ‘how’ these men got this way?

As a counselor who worked with both female victims and men who abuse OR manipulate  them, I’ve learned some ‘inside secrets’ about:

• How men become dangerous

• Why men get this way

• How relationships with dangerous men end up

• The Victim-Abuser 'Attraction'

3 Pack Ebook $47 These are electronic download books.

Kelly said “He had a really rough childhood and teen years. I felt sorry for him like no one really gave him a break or understood him or tried to help him get a better life for himself and stop all the domestic violence. I didn’t want to be ‘one more person’ who abandoned him. He kept reminding me too that I was either NOT like people who abandoned him or I was GOING TO BE just like everyone else who abandoned him. I just kept thinking, ‘How did he end up like this? Can anyone help him? Will counseling or medication or a spiritual approach help him overcome his self destructive behavior?”

WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW REALLY CAN HURT YOU! BENEFIT FROM WHAT I KNOW FROM COUNSELING BOTH FEMALE VICTIMS AND MALE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE BATTERERS And Other Dangerous Man Types

STILL FEEL LIKE YOU NEED EVEN 'MORE' EDUCATION? LEARN....

* How to pay attention to your internal danger-alert system and how this can SAVE you in the future

* The 3 types of red flags and what enormous lessons they can teach you

* The whisper of your intuition

* One easy question to find out in you're in a deal-breaking relationship

* Stubborn women and what they ignore that keeps them a chronic victim

* AVOID this mistake and avoid domestic violence and other dangerous behaviors

~~ ~~ ~~ ~~ ~~ 

Don't Waste Your Time With Counselors Who Don't Get IT! They aren't trained in this...

I  hear this all the time….”My counselor isn’t understanding this attraction I have for dangerous men. She is really just sort of blowing it off but I know it’s a big deal because I keep doing it! It’s my life that it’s ruining. What doesn’t she seem to understand this?”

Many counselors who don’t work with both female victims AND male abusers don’t understand the attraction between them. Until ‘How to Spot a Dangerous Man’ this inside information was only known by specialists. No one had tried to write an easy-to-understand book for the ordinary woman to understand their relationships with dangerous men who are domestic violence offenders.

But NOW, one is available! It’s time women understand how to protect themselves from dangerous men, what these men’s childhoods and adult history are likely to be, and what the future holds when you get trapped in dangerous hook-ups.

THE TRUTH IS:

THE MORE TIMES YOU HAVE BEEN WITH A DANGEROUS MAN, THE MORE AT-RISK YOU ARE OF PICKING MORE Domestic Violent Abusers TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH.

Kelly continues her story, “You know, the more times you have been beaten down, either emotionally or physically, the lower your self esteem goes. The lower your self esteem goes, the MORE these kinds of guys radar can pick up on you. I was giving out signals that these guys were picking up on. I wish I had known all this in my earlier years. It could have prevented so much pain.”

AVOID THE PATH OF PAIN -- These guys LOOK for women they can easily pick out of a crowd. You're not as protected as you think you are!

What I found out from almost 20 years as a counselor is that most women who start down the path of being in a relationship with these types of violent and abusive guys will date 4-5 BEFORE THEY STOP! Sometimes they only stop the relationship because they are seriously injured by him—some are killed, others are emotionally wounded and require counseling to heal.

THE WOMAN I KNEW WOULD DIE

A lasting memory for me as a counselor (and what motivates me to bring this information to YOU TODAY!) is a married woman I counseled with briefly about domestic violence whom I warned that her husband had the likelihood of being very violent. She felt like she ‘knew him’ better than I did because actually, I had never met him. I didn’t need to –to know what I know. She said she had been in an abusive relationship with him for years and she was in the best position to ‘know what he would or would not do.’ I told her all the kinds of things that are in ‘How to Spot a Dangerous Man’ book and warned her of what I thought could happen. She was shot in the head—killed in front of her two young children by him. PLEASE don’t let this happen to YOU or ME (as a counselor) again!

~WHAT KIND OF WOMEN DATE 4-5 DANGEROUS MEN?

~WHAT ARE THE BACKGROUNDS OF WOMEN WHO END UP IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH THESE KINDS OF MEN? (There are similarities!)

~ HOW DOES A WOMAN’S CHILDHOOD BACKGROUND EFFECT HER IN WAYS THAT LEAD HER TO PICK THESE KINDS OF MEN?

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IT’S NOT JUST THE VIOLENT

ONE’S THAT ARE THE PROBLEM!

We’ve been talking a lot about the kinds of guys who abuse you by hitting your or verbally abusing you. But you know, that’s not the only kind of ‘DANGER’ women face. Some of these guys are sweet, charming, giving, generous, and look like a great guy from the outside. AND, they may never go on to hit you. That’s not how they hurt you.

NOT TO WORRY! I cover what to look for in these guys too. There are those men who have secret lives and you can bet that what is secret about them is going to hurt YOU in the end. What about those married men? You bet. I dig in there as well. What about addicts, needy & clingy men, mentally ill and even predators? All covered!

ARE YOU ANGRY AT YOURSELF FOR BEING WITH A VIOLENT MAN? DO YOU FEEL STUCK AND POWERLESS TO STOP THIS? Are You With An Addict or a Married Guy? Does It Make You Crazy That You Can't Break It Off? 

~ Do you keep repeating the same choices in relationships?

~ Keep dating various different 'kinds' of violent men?

~ Seem to keep picking unhealthy men for a relationship?

~ Are attracted to men with too many ‘issues’?

~ Only pick men who are abusive?

~ Only pick addicts, violent, or married men?

DO YOU DESPAIR THAT YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A  GREAT RELATIONSHIP? AFRAID YOU WILL  ALWAYS BE ALONE OR IF YOU DO HAVE ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP....IT WILL BE WITH YET ANOTHER LOSER? DO YOU WANT TO JUST GIVE UP TRYING TO DATE OR FIND A PERMANENT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP?  

Then it sounds like to me you are READY to begin to change your choices, so you can change your life! ‘How to Spot a Dangerous Man’ will help you start making healthier relationship choices TODAY!

DON’T DESPAIR! THERE IS

 GOOD NEWS FOR YOU!

 * Find out how to NOT become an 'emotional hostage' with a dangerous man....why your abandonment and separation issues could be leading you right into his arms....DON'T THINK YOU HAVE THOSE KINDS OF ISSUES? HE CAN PROBABLY TELL IT BEFORE YOU CAN!

Finally! A Step-By-Step Guide On How to Spot a Dangerous Man CHANGE YOUR CHOICES, CHANGE YOUR LIFE. LEARN: Get clear on the number one dangerous man dating type for women! Which dangerous man type wreaks MORE havoc and causes MORE women to seek counseling than other dangerous man types  The TRUTH about why emotionally unavailable men won't let you into their lives  The emotional tools men use who have a hidden life  Two completely different emotionally unavailable types   Behavior patterns you MUST investigate  Several covert signs of mental illness in men Why some women are attracted to emotionally and mentally unstable men True stories about women's own dangerous man choices 12 signs your guy could be an out of control addict Clear definitions of what constitutes abuse The smartest thing you can do to avoid getting trapped in long term toxic relationships How predators find you That ONE personality feature that makes predators SO   irresistible 21 signs that he IS a predator

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STOP READING RELATIONSHIP BOOKS—THOSE BOOKS AREN’T GOING TO HELP YOU!

So many other TYPES of relationship and dating books ONLY focus on ‘how to attract men.’ Well, if you’re a magnet for always attracting the WRONG MAN—the DANGEROUS MAN, the MAN WHO ALWAYS HARMS YOU, what good is it to learn to attract MORE OF THE SAME in yet another relationship? If you don’t know ‘how to spot dangerous men’ then ANY MEN are risky for you right now!

~     how to know if your man has a secret life going on....isn't that info EVERY woman should have?

~ the REAL reason why these guys don't break up like normal men do  

~ signs of hidden addictions

~ sneaky ways dangerous men get you to 'not leave them!'

THESE GREAT INSIGHTS FROM A THERAPIST WHO HAS SEEN IT ALL IS WHY.... the book’s ideas have been in ‘Women’s Health Magazine’ and ‘The National Examiner’ who has millions of readers—it’s because women WANT AND NEED the information for a safer and happier life.

This book isn’t for you IF you can name the following:

• The 14 signs of a bad dating choice
• Why these dangerous and violent men are successful in relationships with certain types of women
• Healthy and unhealthy limits in relationships
• Signs of a healthy relationships
• What in your early childhood is causing you to select these men?

WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU CONTINUE TO DATE MEN WHO ARE ACTIVE MANIPULATORS, CHEATERS, LIARS, SECRET LIVERS, OR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ABUSERS?

“The worst part for me was how I was role-modeling to my young daughters that women should take this kind of stuff in a relationship. My teen age son learned ‘this is how guys are in a relationship.’ I mean, what are they learning by watching me? I can’t pretend this doesn’t effect them. What can I ask of them when they are older in relationships if I can’t ask it of myself today? If I can’t leave or break off these kinds of relationships for me, than I MUST do it for them. They don’t deserve to get this warped message about relationships that they are getting by watching me in this repeating cycle I have been stuck in. Thank you for the butt-kick.”

See why 15 major newspapers have carried the story about the Dangerous Man relationship book including,

* The St. Petersburg Times * The Dallas Morning News * The Seattle Post Intelligencer * The Tampa Tribune * The Cincinnati Post * The Rocky Mountain News and * The Miami Tribune

And even the National Book Critics Circle had this to say:

Not ready to give him up?
Not sure he really is ‘pathological’ or ‘dangerous'?

Ok…. So HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW?

In one of my surveys I asked women what kinds of men they shouldn't be in a relationship with. Most women couldn’t name more than 1 type! That’s because they were DATING/MARRYING the other 7 types! Do YOU know what kinds of men are most likely to:

• Be violent?
• Have ongoing addiction problems (not just drugs/alcohol)?
• Assault others?
• Kill others or themselves?
• Always cheat?
• Be needy and clingy?
• Are married?
• Have hidden and secret lives?
• Have a buried criminal past?
• Aren’t who they say they are?

If you don't know these answers, how can you protect yourself? These guys know all the back-door entrances into your life! If you can't see them coming, you can't jump out of the way .

FOR THE PRICE OF LESS THAN A COUNSELING SESSION YOU CAN HAVE THE TOOLS TO CHANGE YOUR CHOICES AND YOUR LIFE! $47.00 is a small price to pay for your future.

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So Just WHAT Is In The 3 Pack Deal Here?

I've Made It As Comprehensive As I Could For You

AND TAKE THE QUIZ! “Are You In Danger of Dating MORE Dangerous Men?” Find out just how 'at risk' in your next relationship you really are! The proof is in the quiz!

In The E-Workbook find out: Why dangerous men are successful What all the dangerous men you have ever dated have in common How your childhood relationships may have effected your choices Your personalized patterns of selection in relationships How to develop your own Do Not Date List for future relationships Why using a support group of friends is important

And In the E-How To Break Up With a Dangerous Man Book find out: All the LIFE SAVING important relationship information about how to set up your exit Why dangerous men don't break up like normal men do and what you need to know about the dangers involved How to get the needed legal and other support you will need What you must NEVER do What you MUST ALWAYS do These products are designed for women who are NOW ready or are BECOMING ready to leave/breakup/get rid of their dangerous man and to change their future relationship choices!

This SURVIVAL 3-PACK is at an affordable price of only $47.00 which includes the Main Book, The Workbook, and The Break Up Book.

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When you buy The Survival 3 Pack, I will also throw in this fact-packed E-Course that includes checklists and tips on:

· E- Course 1: Stop Dragging My Heart Around—The Principles of Dangerousness

· E-Course 2: Addictive Relationships? Is yours one?

· E-Course 3: Adult Children of Abusive Parents: When Parents Are Pathological

· E-Course 4: Are You Dating a Narcissist?

FREE BONUS #2: SIGNS OF A BAD DATING CHOICE

When you buy The Survival 3 Pack, I will ALSO throw in this great Hand Out Sheet - The Signs of a Bad Dating Choice - formatted for you to post on your fridge or keep handy for the next time you start dating! Right at your finger tips will be 'THEE Check List'! No trying to remember what was in the book about the checklist - it's all right here!

BONUS #3: DISCOUNTS ON PHONE COUNSELING SESSIONS WITH SANDRA L. BROWN, M.A.

For customers who buy the The Survival Pack you will become eligible for the Discounted Telephone Counseling Sessions! Normally $50 per session, for those who buy - only $37.50 EACH.

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So Kelly says “How could I have known? Were there tell-tale signs I missed? Other than the obvious which is violence, what makes a man dangerous?” And I smile and say, “Kelly, I'm glad you asked....Here's what makes a man dangerous...”

SO LADIES—WHAT WILL IT BE?

Another year of pain? Another bad relationship? Another victimization? Another dangerous man after this one? This is amazing and life transforming information for $47 bucks—if you don't see your life is worth $47....then it will never change! Next year will be the same as this year was for you...

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AND The Bonuses:

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I hope with all my heart that you choose to join the family of women who have made the step with The Survival 3 Pack to change their lives. But only you can take the first step.

Sincerely,

Sandra L. Brown, M.A.

Psychotherapist & Author

P.S. And to make your decision that much easier, I offer a 14 day Money Back Guarantee - that; "if these E-books don't help you understand what you have been missing in the concepts of dangerousness, I'll refund you money." You have NOTHING to LOSE — YOUR WHOLE LIFE TO GAIN!

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